Step one: You need to tell yourself that you're worthy of a relationship in which each person is equally as committed and attentive to each other. There is someone waiting for you to come along so that they can love you unconditionally and whole heartedly. Expect nothing less of your current relationship or your new possibilities... period, the end.
Step two: Do not call the person who is breaking up with you at all. At all. In fact, go ahead and call your phone company and ask them to block that person's number. In order for that person to want to talk to you, they are going to need the opportunity to miss you. Hide your phone if you have to. Spend some time with your family and friends and write your venting and raving fits to TheLoveBlogger@gmail .com if that's what you need to do to stop yourself from trying to contact the very person who is currently breaking your heart. This is called self-respect. It's important that you have that so you don't let anyone walk all over you.
Step three: Think of the things you've been wanting to do with your friends and family that you haven't done because you were spending time with your boyfriend or girlfriend. Wipe your tears, put on a smile, even if it's fake, and go do those things! Have fun. While you're having fun and not calling, texting, emailing, facebook messaging your ex, they will be starting to wonder why they don't have ten missed calls all from you. Twenty somthing text messages saying 'I miss you' all from you. They might secretly start to worry that you're gone, that you've found someone else. That you don't quite miss them anymore. This is a great thing! Now they have to seek you out!
If you'd like to know what to do next, stay tuned to this blog or email: TheLoveBlogger@gmail.com!
Image: The Break-up.
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